Someone who respects you,
treats you right,
unconditionally loves you,
who sees the beauty in your cracks,
heals you, nurtures you,
bears with your mistakes,
forgives you,
takes time-outs when the stress is too much
but doesn't break the bond,
who encourages you to be your best self,
is your biggest motivator & cheerleader,
celebrates your baby steps,
has your back when you stumble and fall,
never uses your insecurities against you,
never puts you down or beats you up
never shames you for being yourself
who never forces you to do anything
who respects your privacy
gives you the time and space you need,
expects nothing but to see you thrive
in doing what you love,
is always there to give you love and understanding
no matter how your day went or how your life is,
who has boundaries which you respect,
stops you before you burn yourself out,
acts like a sounding board for your ideas,
gives you constructive feedback on your work,
motivates you to be the healthiest
and most authentic version of yourself,
Who watches out for you,
Who your close circles love & respect
Who is your:
3 am friend,
6 am good morning text,
1 pm did you eat? ,
5 pm come home safe,
8 pm I made a special dinner,
10 pm good night,
all time 'I love you for who you are' person,
who makes you feel comfortable to be yourself,
laughs at all your jokes,
knows all your sob stories,
understands your triggers, anxieties and pet peeves,
doesn't hold your past against you,
pushes you to be better
while giving you the belief that you are good enough.
Who is fiercely loyal and protective of you.
Who stands up for you no matter what.
Someone who is a safe home.
Someone you love spending time with
Someone who helps you feel happy and safe
And that someone who you totally deserve
Is Y O U
Now read it again
Being your own special someone
doesn't mean you are self centered,
egoistic or shallow.
It rather means
you don't need someone to be your hero.
You can be there for others and for yourself too
It means you can survive and thrive
by being your own Knight in Shining Armour...
and when the Universe decides to send someone special
on your path, you will know your worth
and how you deserve to be treated.
You will know how to be
a genuinely loving and supporting partner
and will not settle for anything or anyone less
You can be an amazing person to someone elseonly when you are an amazing person to yourselfTo be relevant to someone elseyou need to feel relevant to yourself
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